这是人情世故，也是城府和“心眼子”！

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这是人情世故，也是城府和“心眼子”！

01亲眼所见，也未必是真相 

判断你所见的是不是真相，只要看其是否符合底层逻辑和人性特点即可。 

比如说，你去拜访领导或长辈，带了一堆东西。领导或者长辈客气地说到，来就来了，还带那么……